What Should I Bring to my Boudoir Session?

I have always believed that fashion was not only to make women more beautiful, but also to reassure them, give them confidence.

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Oregon Boudoir Photography: Ember Bliss Boudoir’s Client Closet Must Knows!

A boudoir session is meant to be a confidence inspiring and empowering experience, and part of feeling confident and beautiful in front of the camera comes from what you wear. To help you make the most of your session with me (Kelly) at my Oregon Boudoir Studio, we’ve put together a guide on what to bring and wear to ensure you look and feel your best. From lingerie to jewelry, we’ve got you covered!

Bring Multiple Lingerie Outfits

When selecting outfits for your boudoir shoot, variety is key! Consider bringing multiple lingerie looks so that you can switch it up during your session. Some essential pieces to bring include a teddy or body suit, which is wonderful for helping you start your session feeling covered (but not too covered!) and hiding any potential insecurities that you aren’t quite warmed up and ready to flaunt just yet. A multi-piece set, such as one with stockings, a garter belt, and a bra and panty set, can give a timeless, sultry vibe, but also just make you feel like an absolute BADASS with a nice ass! Opt for either cheeky panties or thongs on the butt area, and you can always go for high-waisted if you want to cover up some lovehandles or tummy fluff! Also, don’t forget about that classic, feminine bra and panty set—sometimes simple is best! If you have anything meaningful to you, like your partner’s jersey or a button-down shirt, feel free to bring those along, too. These can add a personal and intimate touch to your session ESPECIALLY if it happens to be a gift for them for Christmas/Valentines/Anniversary/etc. Finally, heels can elevate any outfit and make you feel extra glamorous, so be sure to pack a pair of your favorite stilettos or pumps. I personally LOVE the stilettos or “Stripper Heels.” Pretty much any heel that is closed-toe and TALL AS HELL – AKA, ankle breakers (don’t worry, I won’t make you walk in them, we’ll carry them around to the pose spots!) look the best! So definitely go crazy for your session heels! Avoid the “office, easy to walk in, not giving sexy vibes” type of heels. You want you butt and your legs lookin’ PUMPED and the taller the heels, the better they’ll look! I have a HUGE variety of heels from stilettos to “not-so-stiletto” type heels that are also equally beautiful! Plus they range from sizes 6-12!

Ensure Your Outfits Are Ready for the Shoot

It’s important to make sure your outfits are in top shape before your session. Try everything on beforehand to ensure it fits perfectly and flatters your body in the right places. If there are any tags, be sure to cut them off ahead of time to avoid any discomfort or visible lines. Wrinkles can distract from the look of your lingerie, so make sure everything is steamed or ironed before packing it (and pack it nicely or just carry it in on a hanger!). For shoes, check that the bottoms of your heels are clean or brand new—no one wants to see scuff marks in their photos and I only photoshop the heels from the Client Closet so if you bring heels that aren’t very pretty down below, that’s going to be seen in your photos! Plus, we do a lot of poses that show the bottom of the heels so it is pretty important! Lastly, inspect your lingerie for any holes or loose threads, as these can be distracting in your pictures and may require an additional retouching fee to remove any of these things that could’ve been avoided beforehand! Taking these steps ensures that you’ll feel comfortable and confident during your session, but most importantly- You’ll end up with the MOST gorgeous images ever! I’ve been doing this for years and a hole in your lingerie is not going to ruin your photos (so don’t stress!) and often times, it’s fixable in editing! BUT, it’s better to ensure that you don’t have any regardless.

Jewelry to Complement Your Outfits

Jewelry is a beautiful way to add that extra sparkle to your boudoir session. Simple, elegant pieces work best, as they won’t compete with your outfits. Don’t go too overboard on giant, bulky items that will grab attention and take the spotlight away from your beautiful face! Consider bringing delicate necklaces, bracelets, rings, and earrings that can complement your lingerie and add a touch of glamour. A dainty necklace can draw attention to your neckline, while a subtle bracelet or ring can complete the look without overpowering it. Don’t be afraid to play with different styles, but remember to keep it simple so that your lingerie and natural beauty remain the focal point. We do have a handful of jewelry that you’re more than welcome to borrow from in the client closet at our Oregon Boudoir Studio! So, if you forget, don’t fret! I’ve got you covered there too!

Don’t Forget the Basics

Even if you’re not sure about which outfits to bring, there are a few staples you should definitely have in your bag. A nude or black thong and a matching bra and panty set are essential items for any boudoir session. These basics are versatile and can be dressed up with glamour robes, body chains, or even your favorite accessories. In case the client closet doesn’t have something you love or doesn’t fit you just right, these items will ensure you’re still able to create a stunning look. Plus, they work well for any type of boudoir shoot, whether you’re going for a romantic, sensual, or bold vibe. I’m VERY confident in the client closet. I’ve curated the most gorgeous pieces in XS-5X that I have not had a single client not find AT LEAST two outfits they loved! Plus, I have the glamour robes, body chains (an insane amount really), and so much more for you to borrow! I’ve got you covered but it doesn’t hurt to help feel prepared by bringing the staples with you just in case!

Last thing…

Your boudoir session is all about you feeling confident and beautiful. By planning ahead and bringing multiple outfits, jewelry, and key wardrobe staples, you’ll ensure that you have plenty of options to create the perfect look for your shoot. Remember to take care of the details, such as ensuring everything fits perfectly, is wrinkle-free, and is in great condition. At Ember Bliss Boudoir, we’re here to help you look and feel your best every step of the way and for my clients, I make sure everybody knows that I can be texted literally 24/7 with any questions, styling concerns. shopping opinions, etc! I’m ALWAYS here to help and I want my clients to feel like I’m holding their hand through it all because this is YOUR day and I’m just here to make sure it goes as perfectly as possible!

The Client Closet in my Oregon Boudoir Studio near Eugene has lingerie from tons of places like: Honey Birdette, Thistle & Spire, Victoria’s Secret, Playful Promises, AdoreMe, SavageXFenty, and so much more. We also have three different colored Angel Wings handmade in Teal, Blush, and Deep Purple! Every vibe you could possibly think of is available! We also have specialty, handmade body jewelry and body cages that are absolutely beautiful and that you cannot find ANYWHERE else! The Ember Bliss Boudoir Client Closet is as unique as can be. Especially with our signature gold embellished heels. These are exclusive to our studio and we started this beautiful addition to make sure your images stand out and feel glamorous!

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Keisha

... I GOT MY CONFIDENCE BACK!!! Don’t get me wrong, my photos are freaking GORGEOUS and I could never pick which one was my absolute favorite, because every single photo is STUNNING!!! But what I gained in my self esteem, my self worth and the love of what and where my body is right now is freaking PRICELESS!!!!! It has made me a better mom and a better partner because of how amazing I feel after gaining the confidence I did from these sessions I have done with Kelly. 

It has made me a better mom and a better partner because of how amazing I feel after gaining the confidence

Lauren

...She has a gift for making you feel and look like the most beautiful, sexy, confident version of yourself. I’ve had other boudoir photos taken of myself before, but these ones with Ember Bliss Boudoir are my favorites. The experience is just magical. Kelly has a way of putting you at ease and talking with you that makes you feel like you’re just hanging out with your bestie and you quickly forget all your insecurities. Between her client closet pieces, makeup and hair styling, and her posing help Kelly has all the bases covered to bring to life any sexy vision you have. You’ll never regret capturing this time in your life, whether it’s for you or a significant other. You will want to wallpaper your house with your images and artwork. Do the shoot and let Kelly show you what a beautiful and empowered woman you are, regardless of how you might feel about, or see yourself.

you'll never regret capturing this time in your life

Grace

Kelly has been my girl for boudoir for almost five years. My first session with her was during a time in my life where I was learning to love and take care of myself and I think that my session with her 100% contributed to my success. She guides you through posing, makes sure you’re comfortable, and her photos always turn out AMAZING.

My session 100% contributed to my success

Jeanice

I have struggled for years with my body and how it has looked. Went so far as to sacrifice my own health at the expense of what I thought was “perfect”. I came to Kelly over 5 years ago at the recommendation of friend, and have not stopped. I have seen so many different versions of my body with the many photoshoots I have done and each time I cannot believe how much love and joy Kelly puts into them. From the outfits she picks, the poses that she does (and shows you how), and the pure pleasure in showing you just how beautiful you are. If you EVER want to do a boudoir shoot, choose Kelly. You will not regret it.

I struggled for years with my body and how it looked

Ryanna

Kelly is amazing! Hands down one of the best experiences of my life and two years later I still love these pictures so much. It is an incredible confidence boost. No matter how you may have viewed yourself before, after a session you will feel like a baddie! From start to finish Kelly is so personable and really becomes a friend in your corner. I couldn't recommend working with her enough! It's worth it at least once in your life! All of her work is gorgeous, and her darker moody vibe in the finished products is killer. I loved being able to bring my own ideas and parts of things in my life into the shoot and really personalize every aspect. I have so many ideas for more even and can't wait to work with Kelly again!

Hands down one of the best experiences of my life

Jordan

10/10 recommend! If you’ve been on the fence about booking with Kelly, I would highly encourage you book the shoot. You won’t regret it! I was a part of the most recent open boudie call. Kelly has such a welcoming energy that she brings into her studio. You’ll feel pampered while you have your hair and makeup done. She even pulled some outfits for me to try from her massive client closet. If you’re new to boudoir, and worried about posing, Kelly has your back. She will coach you through the whole shoot and even show you how to do the poses. She’s the ultimate hype woman and will make you feel very comfortable in her space. I will most definitely be returning for another shoot in the future. I promise you’ll have a blast if you book with Kelly!

she's the ultimate hype woman and will make you feel very comfortable

Christa

I booked a boudoir session with Kelly after my divorce, and I’m so so glad I did! Kelly is super professional and responsive. She walked me through everything. The day of our shoot was so fun and like a little vacation for this mama! Kelly did my hair and makeup, and it looked SO good. I felt like a bombshell before we even began trying on outfits or shooting. I brought some pieces I love, but she offers a full client closet with a wide range of sizes, styles, and colors. I was so impressed by how inclusive it was.  Kelly walked me through every pose and position. She was throwing out compliments and just making me feel super confident and beautiful the whole time too! I LOVE the photos. I felt so beautiful, confident, and empowered. 

i felt like a bombshell before we even began shooting

Patricia

Hands down THE best and most empowering experience of my life! Kelly made me look AND feel absolutely beautiful! I’ve now worked with her several times and I think it’s safe to say, I’m addicted!! She is kind, companionate, relatable, knowledgeable and knows all the right angles!! Highly recommend boudoir shoot at least once in your life! Kelly will never make anyone feel bad for size, age, insecurities Ect. All are welcome and she does a phenomenal job at making that so very true!!

Hands down THE best and most empowering experience of my life

Brittany

... I'm a VERY self conscious person. Even before I was bigger, I was that way and never in a million years thought I'd do these types of photos. However, I kept following and seeing kelly post her absolutely amazing pictures in here. Finally after literally 2 years, I decided to just go for it! My husband and I decided on couples photos! Not only did kelly do a phenomenal makeup and hair job. She also made it feels comfortable during the shoot. It was like she was somebody I knew for years, and I didn't need to feel awkward! When we saw our sneak peaks, our jaws hit the floor. Don't get me started on when we saw all the final photos! I NEVER EVER thought I'd look at a photo, let alone boudoir photo and actually see something I loved. I was mesmerized by the angels, lighting, and all around talent and abilities that kelly can do with a camera! Plus, the amount of finals you recieve!

I never thought I'd look at a photo and see something I loved

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